tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7078683870435206077.post4186871379264318406..comments2013-06-18T21:48:55.870-05:00Comments on Intimacy, Love & Sex: TNH-- Unfinished, Letting GoPaganPrincesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01156318840802105541noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7078683870435206077.post-66098220921181122722012-09-03T12:56:14.740-05:002012-09-03T12:56:14.740-05:00Kzai--- I feel VERY strongly that lovers/partners ...Kzai--- I feel VERY strongly that lovers/partners should have very little say when it comes to the hair on a person's head. Like you said, he doesn't have to deal with bad hair days and styling. Some hairstyles are low maintanence but look aweful. By that I mean, long-hair can be very easy to deal with, but washing/conditioning/drying takes forever. And if you don't look good with hair back or down? There are all kinds of combos for maintanence, convenience, length, style time, etc. I don't know many women, personally, who have time for high maintanence hair.<br /><br />I know some who choose to make time for it, but that is for THEM, not their lover/partner.<br /><br />And if a person's hairstyle is REALLY that big of a deal to the partner, then there are other problems in my not so humble opinion.<br /><br />This is one of those times when I can brag on my dad. My mother gets her hair colored every two weeks like clockwork. Has for probably 20 years now. If he knew how much it COST he'd be disturbed, but he wouldn't nag. It is the ONE THING she has consistently done for herself, and made time for herself on, in 20 years. He won't begrudge her that. And my mom has been with her stylist for almost all of those 20 years, right after she got out of beauty school. so she gets a discount.<br /><br />IDK if my dad prefer's my mom's hair longer. She cut it about ten years ago and now wears it very short. It saves time and makes her life easier. It was pretty much in a braid constantly for 5 years or more. So here's the REAL bragging--- first time I'd significantly cut my hair short in forever (I was almost 21) I came home fromt he beauty parlor. I asked my 17 year old brother what he thought.<br /><br />Without really looking and very neutrally he said, it's fine. When I asked him for a REAL opinion, he replied that our father had told him that no matter WHAT his opinion, he was to tell me that he liked it and it looked good.<br /><br />My mom found a winner! :DPaganPrincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01156318840802105541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7078683870435206077.post-53638644997933851742012-09-01T12:13:48.573-05:002012-09-01T12:13:48.573-05:00I keep my hair short these days for maintenance re...I keep my hair short these days for maintenance reasons as well. Taz hates it, but he's not the one who had to deal with bad hair days and trying to find different ways to style it.<br /><br />~Kazi xxxKaziGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03491367639803127084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7078683870435206077.post-62116346858666529232012-08-31T13:48:16.772-05:002012-08-31T13:48:16.772-05:00Phoenix-- is that your way of letting us know that...Phoenix-- is that your way of letting us know that your given name is Sampson? ;)<br /><br /><br />Jack-- thanks. I didn't think it was overly personal, but ok. Annoyed by some of the typos, and one really poorly written bit.<br /><br /><br />To Clarify--- I practice an earth religion that uses 'sympathetic majic'. That is what I meant when I said "I am one of them"PaganPrincesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01156318840802105541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7078683870435206077.post-57077138307503995652012-08-31T10:59:21.542-05:002012-08-31T10:59:21.542-05:00Wow! Such a thoughtful, deeply personal post. Yo...Wow! Such a thoughtful, deeply personal post. Your reasons for having short hair are incredibly sensible and admittedly something that hadn't occurred to me - though my hair is relatively short and I don't spend very much time getting it presentable. Jill, on the other hand...<br /><br />Sorry about your dangerous housing situation, but I'm very glad you're no longer in it. Sending some positive thoughts to you!<br /><br />-JackJack and Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00621526029674020006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7078683870435206077.post-4832528413767193302012-08-30T11:25:54.644-05:002012-08-30T11:25:54.644-05:00great post, loved reading it. i used to subscribe ...great post, loved reading it. i used to subscribe to the belief that my power was in my long hair, but my hair gets too curly and scraggly and unmanageable the longer it gets, so i had to shave it off...and now i am powerless forever<br /><br />peace :) the late phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04397137348877891309noreply@blogger.com